whaat a life...

How time flies… I’ve finally survived from maid-less days. It’s rather tired and exhausted (most of time) but I’m still surviving. Mainly because I began to realize it was ME, myself to change the mindset.

I’m learning to let go of dusty floor and messy bedroom whenever I’m too…….. exhausted to clean up the mess. I’m learning to let the kids earning their ‘Me’ time rather than being what I wish.

Till then, I just found … everything can be so wonderful.

A quick update

Goshh... I seem loosing my inspiration of writing to update this blog of mine. Reading on the long outdated post which dated July reminds me that I should at least update one or two post within a month, just to refresh my reader (if any). Hahaha...

So what am I doing now or what had I done the past months? Nothing much but I changed my hair style, I put on my weight becoming a typical SAHM, and I transferred Xavier to another kiddy for the reason of... (read HERE).

Like I said, nothing much and that's what I done for the past few months.

My new hair style....

feeling lost

I don’t feel like doing anything these day. Mainly because I am over enjoyed with the luxury time I had every day and that’s caused the lazy bugs grow inside me.

I’m getting so hard to wake up each day, rushing on the preparation for the kiddos can be tiring too when they would have their ‘morning sickness’ (I mean throwing tantrum) sometimes. I never thought doing the house chores can be such exhausted. I simply hate it …

What happened on me? Is that lazy bugs that block out my mind or I’m losing my signification of life?

Such a wonderful life

Looking at the calendar and I counted, it has been almost a month since I left my stressful job. Life is so……………… wonderful now as I could enjoy the luxury of personal time by doing anything at my interest, without having disturbance too.

At times, Stew and I would enjoy our afternoon movie show whenever he had early hour knocked off. I could have the options in preparing dinner or just kick out for dinner. Kiddos are still under babysitter's care the other half of day and I usually would pick them before sunset , unlike previous practice which usually at 8pm.

My wonderful life would last for another month until I had fully got ready for I suppose to be. Meanwhile, I had a special mission that is giving Stew a helping hand on his trading business.

Let the life goes as it and I am happy for what I had now.

Neighbourhood

We have pretty good neighbors at our new neighbourhood. Remember my comment about the unfriendly of Johor people I met when I first residing in Johor? Not anymore when I moved in to our new house at a new neighborhood.

I guess we were lucky that the owners stayed next to us are at the age similar to ours. And that causes the same interest and topics to share each time we caught at the doorstep. Guess what, a neighbor who even shared his network connection with us and watering our plants while we away from home too.

Indeed, I am so grateful having them as my neighbor.

A woman's life

We had a cousin who has just given birth in month of May. Somehow the birth labour experience has indeed a nightmare of lif. The gynae who took charge of her wasn’t an experience doctor and almost caused the death of baby. It was all thank god that another doctor came in to save both the mother and baby’s life.

I suggested the cousin to take legal action to the doctor by seeking assistance from Topamax lawsuit whom expertise in such area of cases. Topamax has years of experience and a professional team in handling such case.

At times, I’m thinking how life could be in danger for a woman to give birth. At times, not all the man appreciates the scarification of one for them. Some even think it is a must-do task for a woman. How selfish if one with such thought…

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my ever last working day...

Though I should pen down about my last working day.

During the one month period of notice, I don’t get a well treat especially from my boss. She rather stayed in silent on my handover despite that was what she highly concerned about with. I then managed to make known to her on the second day before I left. 

The funniest was, I had been told to standby for the calls in the case of any uncertainty that required my assistance.

It was a busier day ever on my last day and I could only pack my stuff on that day...

Happening June 2011

It is a very happening month of June.

Early of June, I am official quit from my job and begin to enjoy my stress-less life. The following week, Stew and I had a short breakaway to Shanghai & Suzhou - China (and it was part of his business trip). So I had my birthday celebrated in Shanghai but without having my two little darlings with me.

Third week of June, I decided to begin Xavier’s kiddy life. He is still under the trial class for a week and for the past days, he cried in the beginning of class thereafter enjoying the moment of learning & playing. Not forget about the Daddy's day. We planned to have the celebration this weekend.

We had plenty of outing trips ahead at end of month and also in July. I can't wait for it...

 

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY to all daddies... 

Good to be back

It is so good to be home especially when you knew someone has been waiting for your return till long neck.

I got an ‘open eye’ about China after the trips. Despite Suzhou should be an outskirt place from Shanghai or Beijing, still the standard of living is so much higher than Malaysia. Simply to own a 700sqft apartment has cost a million. So you can imagine how hard to own a property by their youngster nowadays.

The trips indeed the tired one but I enjoyed myself with that stress-less moment. For more photo viewing, visit to my other blog from time to time.  

happy birthday to me...

This is my only birthday cake from Stew...

So what is my ever best wish of this year birthday. Nothing beat the most important of getting a healthy body for everyone.

The upcoming trip....

Finally I had something to look ahead, my only breakaway to China. Apparently no much of preparation has done. For an itinerary of a week, not even 10% was done. A girl friend of mine was asking if secure myself with protection from Austin personal injury lawyer, in view of that not-so-safe condition at most of tourism places.

I'm not sure of what I'm thinking but I never thought of going to China so far. Not because of its negative comments but I thought it would be my last option to go if choose for a leisure trip, probably when I'm at the age of retiring. Like what most elderly did. After some researched done, I realize how nice to be able to visit at places that has nice scenes.

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Ageing coming to me

When you realize your body condition was unlike the usual you, but unable to fight against the time, then you know age is catching up.

I was gossiping with a girl friend of mine, someone I knew in my college life. I was told that she recently in love with oldies, songs of 80s or 90s. Singers of said decade are more qualified than now. to the max, you would never heard on the inhale sounds between the intervals. I'm so agreed with her.

d As we chat, we realized life not anymore like what we used to be. Being as a wife, a mother of two, we have obligations of life. Today we are at beginning of 30, tomorrow we would telling each other about life of 40. I am so freaked out of ageing.

Helping hands to others

The disaster at Japan indeed a heart-break news to everyone especially looking at the terrible destroyed that caused. The many thousand life been sacrified in just a few hour and we all cried for them.

Somehow we did nothing to the abandoned babies happened in our country. We cries for life sacrificed in disaster, we feel pitiful to the disaster victims but, how many of us did give the helping hand to the abandoned babies? Unlike Topamax birthdefect lawsuit, that always ready to give their professional helps to people in needs. What's more if it is related to birth defect that caused by medication.

Planning ahead ...

Finally everything has been finalized and I am looking ahead for all plannings, include the coming trip to Shanghai & Suzhou.

The booking for flight tickets has done, but the planning on the itinerary has not complete even 10%. Stew asked if we should prolong the trip and enjoy ourselve without his business associate. I wish we could, somehow the two weeks of school holidays seems too short for us to do so. Xandria will be resume on her kiddy life and I decided to enroll Xavier to join her kiddy starting of this school terms. I wonder if he could adapt to this changes.

Lots of planning ahead and I don't see to have my luxury time to enjoy that so called of 'long vacation'.

A tiring labour day

Though the public holiday of 'Labour Day' would be more like a relaxing days for me. Somehow, I worked extra tiring on the day. The house chores double the tiredness of office work. And all thanks to that part-time helper who never did a good routine work. Gosh huh.... I'm a labour that never got double pay, but double tiredness on Labour Day.

what could a mommy done?

As you read from newspaper, the news about an abandoned baby would always hit on me. A title with word ‘ABANDONE’ caught my attention. To the worst when we noticed that baby was born with handicapped. At times, I wonder how could a mother ever willing to let go the flesh of blood like that. Despite with his/her birth defective, still it is parent’s responsibilities to get through the life with the child. We know it may not the parent’s fault for such defects but I believe they are ways to solve the problem, probably like seeking advice from Topamax lawsuit would anyhow better than dumping it to the dustbin or toilet.

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Something thrilling..

I was not feeling so good the entire day. Probably because of what I saw in the morning that bothered me. Something thrilling happened when I was on my way to work. I witnessed a horrible accident that killed a motorist. The motorist was being knocked and lie on the middle of road. The cars at front were having emergency stop when it happened. I was almost hit on the car at fronts.

I don’t know who the faulty party is but as I know majority of motorists are driving so thrilling and never bother to give you a way. Just when thought of this issue, I guess the motorist and car driver does need a good and experienced attorney (probably the one like Austin Personal Injury Attorney) to claim for their own benefit or justice.

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Great year ahead

How time really flies. Looking at my latest post in December, I realized so long I had not updating this blog. It is a brand new year now. What’s more a special festive to all Chinese, Lunar Chinese New Year and it is year of Bunny.

I don’t really believe in Fengshui years ago but I do for now. A good Fengshui indeed change the fortune of your life. According to the Fengshui, the year of Bunny indeed a prosperous year (especially to whom born in year of Horse) and I assume it is a great timing for my buy gold coins investment to have a good return. Especially after my big lost in my recent spent on the waste of hotel booking and Xavier’s medical fees. Wonder how many investment I should have just enough for myself a good spend.

It’s 7th day of New Year and wishing all of you a happy & prosperous year of Bunny!!!

Our X'mas day

We did not have any special celebration for X'mas caused both Stew and I were too tired after a whole day of working. And with a superb active boy at home, I never had a good rest at all, even when i'm having my 'business' in toilet. *headache*

So on the first day of X'mas, we went for a walk at Jusco, Bukit Indah, with our neighbour. Again, it's crowd with people and when it was so crowded, I don't enjoy to shop. So nothing bought but simply a walk at Jusco. Probably due to my recent unhealthy condition, simply a walk tired me lots. I felt so exhausted and almost dozed off after having lunch.

At night, we had the kids to open their X'mas present. Xandria being on her usual self, so happy with anything i bought for her. Xavier too young to demand and simply enjoyed the fun of opening the present. For myself, I got a CD perfume from Stew. It has been years that I've not apply any perfume since the days i realized everyone in the family with nose allergy. Funny... I had to think of when to use it. Probably I should keep it in my office. As for Stew, I got him a new wallet of his favourite brand. That's all for our X'mas.

How time really flies... it's going to be a brand new year few days later. HAPPY NEW YEAR 2011, everyone...

Heart with baby item

Just before you have any children, baby stuff like baby changing table would never attract your attention. But for me, i simply love it despite i’m not having any kid since young. And i love it because all items were made specially for a new life.