It has been 4 years

Time has been clocking like a flicked of finger and life has been so tight up with heavy workload and the kiddos... If you asked about how was the celebration over the past three years, I simply had no idea about it.

Even for this year, both of us were completely forgot about it.

Happy 4th Anniversary, Darling....

10 years relationship, 3 years of....

In year 1999, I got to know him from a close friend’s birthday party. We became a very good friend since then. 2 years later, we got attach to each other after realized that our relation is rather just a friendship. After a long 6 years of hard relationship, he proposed to me … and we finally tight up the knot in year 2007.

And now, it has been 3 years since we got married. For the past 3 years, I seem have no much achievement in life except having 2 VIP, Xandria & Xavier. Life isn’t that good when you know it’s going to very tough ahead and more preparation needed.

I can't assure for a long lasting relationship but I do pray GOD for it...

Anniversary Gift

Looking at the calendar, I just realized that our anniversary is coming soon. Guess what, I bet daddy has completely forget about this date. What’s more when I expected something special or a surprising gift from him. Hmmm, say about a romantic cancun vacation as my anniversary gift?? Or a 3 carats diamond ring??

I must be dreaming now. Piakkk…wake up, wake up!! How can I expect such a luxury gift from him when I don’t even think of any gift for him?? Some people are struggling to save money and I seem simply spend on things like that.

Okay, end of ranting. Time to work. But I really do hope for that…

Lovely card...

I received a wedding card from my friend this morning. She bought the card during her trip to Japan. The card was so lovely. Thanks, my dear!!!

Husband & Wife.....

Many married friends told me that it's different when couple progress to the status of “Husband and Wife”… The expectation of one another elevated, while the tolerance level decelerated and I do agree with that.

Stew did expect me not to be overindulgence but to be more mature. While i am expecting him to be more circumspection. Ya ya....it is hard afterall. Husbands and wives are to learn to respect, to understand, to accept and to support one another through thick and thin. It's like a scale, we both try to balance up…

Just Married...

I have finally completed the whole wedding ceremony.

Thank you for both of our family members who helps us on the whole preparation, friends and relatives who attended to our wedding dinner as well as the big 'angpaw'. Also, thanks for the 'ji mui' & 'heng dai' who has make the atmosphere for morning section so fun & excited..... It's really the most memorable moment to me.

Thanks again to everyone!!! More picture to view.....

Some photo to share.....

Just some pre-wedding photo to share with friends.....!!!

Pre-Wedding Package

I've finally signed up my Pre-Wedding Shooting package with Just Married Bridal S/B!!!

Went to Bridal Fair that organized by Bella Bride at Midvalley last weekend. Thought of to sign-up with Vogue Bridal S/B as their package & concepts of album were quite attractive at the beginning. However, i've realized that package offered by Just Married was much more attrative & worth it. With the price of RM3k++, Just Married provided more services to me compared to Vogue.

In addition, Vogue seems to be not professional enough. When I told the sales assistant that I managed to get a better offered (with same price) from other bridal shop, she offered the same package that other bridal shop offered me immediately. My first thought toward her action was :'why don't you offered me at the beginning ?". And i remember that the sales assistant (who served me during my visit to their shop at SS2) told me that they will not participate in this bridal fair but.......!! What kind of lie they are trying to tell??? I can't imagine how worst it would be if i did sign-up with them!!

Hopefully the package i signed-up with Just Married is worth for what i get.

Meeting the parents...

Both of our parent still never got the chance to meet up for our wedding discussion ever since i agreed to marry Stew, . So, i told him to arrange for a 'meeting parents' dinner during this holidays when he has back to KL.

The dinner was held at Cystal Palm Seafood Restaurant (a restaurant which i might hold my wedding dinner there) last saturday. Actually, it was the idea of Stew's parent to choose on this restaurant & i had no choice..... Well, the foods tasted quite good & the decoration for the wedding still can be accepted. However, i don't really like that my wedding dinner to be held here due to the 'spacing' of the restaurant wasn't big enough. i told Stew that we might need to search around before committed to this restaurant.

Basically, the discussion was only started after the dinner & it is all about the ceremony of chinese tradition. Stew's parent asked whether mom has anything needs to add-on if there had missed out anything (it's their first time of having wedding celebration as Stew is the eldest son).
So, the discussion ended up at about 9.00pm with the bill of about RM300++ only for four course of dishes. Kinda expensive...

Thanks for the dinner, my future FIL!!!

Wedding Shoes

I never thought that my wedding shoes can be bought at such a good & cheap price. Guess how much is it?? It’s only at RM37.95 after discounted price. Yess….it is that cheap!!! Never thought rite?? My budget just for the shoes was around RM150 earlier but now, i can save up the money for other accessories.

Actually, it happened to be so coincident that my sis & i went for shopping at Lot 10 last week (just for your info, my sis are very good shoppers. They can easily found with accessories at the cheapest price.) Hahaha…….

Well…the shoes seems to be quite elegance & nice. This is what I’ve been searching all these while. Thanks gals…………

Wedding Preparation

I thought i supposed to be excited on my wedding preparation since i had the date like planning on which wedding style & venue, wedding packages, gowns & coats, shoes, accessories, dinner venue, places for honeymoon etc. However, I did nothing on it so far but only some research on Bridal Shop (BS) for the pre-wedding shooting.

There are many things that need to be planned & done but i seems to have no guts at all to do so. Maybe i am worrying…. worried that he might has time for the preparation (yes, he is working far away from me), worried that wedding will not go as planned, worried about life after married etc…… All these worried has caused lots of pressure on me & guess it is ‘phobia’ i should called. I told my sis about my problems, she suggested that i go for psycholo consultation.

Am i going to be ‘发疯’(mad) soon?? Guess this is the only way out…..at least for this moment!

Wedding Date

It was not an easy job to have a good & prosperity date for my wedding ever since i had agreed with his proposal. Why?? Good question! It all because of wrong timing - so coincident that it was the month of ‘Ghost’ according to lunar calendar. Oh my god….. that was really killing me as i personally don’t really believe in this. However, the mother (my future MIL) claimed to do so only after the two ‘ghost’ months. By then, only able to get a good & prosperity date to us (bride & groom). What can i do then? My darling & i had no choice but to wait after two months just to get the date. What a ridiculous thing……

Only til today, i had finally got the date - 29.09.2007 is going to be most memorable day to both of us & also a big changes in my life!

Well, i know….. it is still long way to go….

Story of us...

Stewart & I met in the month of December, 2001. 

I was attending a birthday party of a friend (also friend of Stewart) at Port Dickson. Stewart was asked to pick me up at my house before heading to Port Dickson. The story was not happened there but we ended up became a good friend by sharing almost everything of our life talking thru phone all night long. It was really awesome as we couldn’t get enough of each other & that’s led to many dates, actually more than 5 years worth. 

One SWEET & ROMANTIC night, he suddenly popped up the question during our bedtime. I was so surprised & happy yet got upset with his proposal of NO RINGS or FLOWERS. However, he has finally conquered me by telling me that “As time past by, flowers will die but my love to you will never die! Please marry me, I shall replace the ring later!” Needless to say, I said “YES!”. It was a moment we will never forget for the rest of our life!!!